Stare sui coglioni is one of the strongest everyday ways to say you can’t stand someone. It’s common in casual speech, especially among friends, but it’s very vulgar. In almost every public or professional situation, Italians switch to softer expressions like dare fastidio or essere pesante.
📌 Use instead
Unlike English, Italian uses carta as the base word for many kinds of cards because its original meaning is paper. The context almost always tells Italians which carta you mean.
You’re in Italy for the first time. At the café, the waiter asks:
Carta o contanti?
Card or cash?
Later, a friend says:
Hai la carta d’identità?
Do you have your ID card?
Then you walk into a game night:
Tocca a te. Gioca una carta.
Your turn. Play a card.
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