The phrase Non siete brutti, siete solo poveri… “You aren’t ugly, you’re just poor” is sarcastic/vulgar humor. In real life, Italians soften criticism:
✅ Non è il vostro giorno migliore (It’s not your best day) ✅ Avete un look… originale! (You have a… unique look!) ⚠️ Avoid brutto/povero in direct address—it’s harsh unless joking with close friends.
Rompere i coglioni meaning “to be a pain in the ass” is extremely vulgar – use only with close friends! Polite alternatives: disturbare (to disturb), seccare (to bother), infastidire (to annoy).